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What you tell yourself always persists in your life

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A conversational analysis of โ€œWhat you tell yourself always persists in your life.โ€ - Rev. Dr. Michael Bernard Beckwith.

Aakinsol: "Hey, have you heard the quote 'What you tell yourself always persists in your life'?"

Kunle: "Yes, I have. It's really powerful. What do you think it means?"

Aakinsol: "Well, I think it means that the thoughts and beliefs we have about ourselves and our lives actually shape our reality."

Kunle: "That's so true. If we constantly tell ourselves we're not good enough or that we'll never succeed, those beliefs will hold us back or that โ€˜Ebi npa waโ€™."

Aakinsol: "Exactly! And on the other hand, if we tell ourselves we're capable and deserving of success or that there abundance of food, we'll be more likely to achieve it."

Kunle: "It's like our inner dialogue is a self-fulfilling prophecy. What we tell ourselves becomes our truth."

Aakinsol: "Right! And it's not just about positive affirmations, it's about being aware of our thoughts and choosing to focus on the ones that empower us."

Kunle: "Absolutely. By changing our inner narrative, we can change our lives."

K. Daramola: "When our inner dialogue or self-talk becomes intentionally positive, then we become awake to our power, beauty and magnificence."

"But almost all have theirs on unconscious auto-drive and negatively oriented"

"The idea that 'you create your own reality' can be hard to believe, and many people find it more plausible that external forces shape our experiences."

Kunle O. Daramola

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